Jim’s Monthly Gems <3
A MONTHLY gift, to you all. Because folks are always asking me about what I like. Well here we go - I wanted to leave you all with a few gems every month as in inside look into my favorite books, lubes and toys!
(this List changes EVERY month!)
~ March Gems ~
Book : Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
Author: Jessica Fern
I love the idea of talking about attachment theory as well as relationships. There is no one way to do a relationship because we are all different. But, it is nice to have more tools.
BDSM : LaCire Torso Form I Drip Candle
I think sensation play is a good place to be in ANY type of sexual time. Especially for survivors trying to get into their bodies and or stay in them. I love candles and these are just soo cute ahh.
Internal Toy : Blush Wellness Silicone Dilator Kit
Dilator kits can be so amazing and helpful. If you are new to penetration and or re-exploring it. Look into a dilator kit, it grows and expands as you do.
Humper Toy : Cute Little Fuckers Starsi Silicone Vibrator
Love this company and the neutrality of the toys. they are truly for all bodies. This is so fun, you can use this solo and or with other folks. (HINT: in between two bodies, grinding together)
Barrier : Lorals Panties Oral Sex Barrier Shortie Cut
I met the folks that make Lorals some time ago. ( I NEED TO RE-UP) But, I love the idea of having a different type of barrier for oral sex. You can get creative and playful with this. As well as their are different cuts to try on
